The most important conversation I heard with my friend was when I started going to college. I didn’t know what I want to be. Whenever I think about what I want to be, I come up with a billion choices, and it was frustrating. Then I sit with my friend who finishes college before me and asked her how I can narrow down my choices on what I want to be in life. She said to me
I go through the same but it’s not bad thing to have several Idea of what you want to do or accomplish so I will advise to you is write down all your Ideas and then figure out which one your most passionate about, the one thing that makes tick and gives you goosebumps when your evasion.
That one thing that literally brings you the most fulfillment and then focuses on that. if there’s more than one thing you want to achieve than start with the realistic to you now, perfect that and come back for the others if you have a passion them too.
- “thank you, you truly made my day I have been so stressed out lately about school and life and what I should be doing career-wise, but now I think I can think about wisely. Did you used to change your major?” I said.
- “Yes, I used to change my major and spent learning a nurse course and failed because it wasn’t my choice at all. After that, I did change my course to business and I did it well because it was something I passionate,”
- “Wow I am glad you’re doing on what you passionate finally,” I said.
- “Now I went to my dream university and I am doing business and economic BA. I am a bath of deciding my master. Hopefully, you will figure out.” she kept telling how she is on her right bath now.
- “I was thinking to drop school but now I totally change my mind,” I said.
- “you will struggle and feel the need to quit but think the end goal and your future,” she said.
There’s was a lot more we talked about but This conversation I had with my friend really help me out of what I want to be, Before I talked to her I always kept changing my mind I even almost think about to drop the college because I have no planned of what I wanted to be. I believe the conversation I had my friend really helped me and save me to not drop. Now I want to study social work because I am passionate about helping people. and I would be taking an intro to social work class
Picking a major is the most important and hardest decision in your life and can be even challenging to stick once you make the choice. don’t let someone lead you a major you don’t want. To deal with many who have experience for college issues in finding a major, you have talked a friend that motivate and encourage you. there are friends that are negative or down all the time. It’s usually the people that are uplifting and positive that we naturally want to be around. What do your conversations with them sound like? The best type of friends will be there to offer a listening ear and help you to put a positive spin on any situation.