Divorce is the beginning, not the end
Hussein Radwan
Dr. Rola Lababadi
ENGL 101
23 December 2018
The failure of marriage, known as divorce, it is the process which any couple can do to terminate their marriage. Divorce laws are different around the world but it is a big problem we are suffering from. A huge count of populations are facing divorce. Divorce will ensure the right for each couple individual if there is physical, sexual or emotional abuse, and it is the solution of the couple disagreement of each other’s life.
We cannot consider the divorce as the end of happiness, it is a new beginning to start correctly with the correct partner.
Divorce have many causes one of them the early marriage, more than 60% of married couples end with divorce every year, and more than 80% of early married couples divorce every year, the divorce is the start of the road to the mind peace, after suffering for a time. This road is full of freedom, dreams realizations, relax and self-love.
You can bring back your happiness and your soul that are lost in a wrong marriage. Therefore, it is the time to choose between the happiness, the freedom and the engagement. Especially if there is any type of abuse, sexual, physical, emotional or even psychological. Jim Rohn says, “If you don’t like how things are, change it! You are not a tree”. Do not be attached and do not depend yourself to anyone. Because no one will know your value more than you will.
In addition, if your partner do not see your happiness worth it so he do not love you, he is selfish.
Philosophy of Freud claims that the love is motivated by the self-centeredness, which means that someone who loves you is because of that he see in your personality what he needs to be happy, and you can make him reach the contentment. The public views divorce as a taboo. In addition, the couples will be fear on how the people will judge them. Aside from the divorce will make you better parent for your children. That is because if the couple are not happy together will not have the time and the ability to take care of their kids and enjoy time together. Nevertheless, that will be done if the divorced couple will divide the time. They understand each other correctly and they want their children happiness.
Divorce is the last solution of the problem when the life becomes unbearable between the women and her husband, and it is the worst. However, it solve the problem. Of course, the divorce is not the best solution for a disagreement between the couple. Wed locked couple should take the responsibility and be aware by what they are doing and it is negative effects. Because the divorce is not always a good solution. Most of problems that can be solved by thinking and taking the actions wisely. Patience is needed from both sides to find the appropriate solution and the best one. Family devastation is not a good solution especially if the couple have children. Therefore, the couple should take care of their relation to take care of their children. Mother’s tenderness and father protection should exist together for children especially between their births to 12 years old. According to Arizona state university “Divorce have been rated the number one life stressor”. Therefore, children can suffer from high levels of anxiety and negative psychological balance. In contrast, if there is no solution the divorce is the best solution to bring back your happiness.
Since the beginning of the humankind, broken families exists. In fact, in today’s societies the divorce has become very common and normal. Divorce is the major cause that leads to family breakdown, however in some cases it is the only solution for the family to live in peace. Before taking such decisions, couple should think more than once.
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